Dear Erik: My 74-year-old sister wants to blame me for introducing her husband to her 50 years ago. I didn’t pick him out for her, just an introduction. She wants me to share the blame for her miserable life with this man. She had many opportunities to leave him but chose to stay. He treats her like garbage and she just keeps taking it. I feel sorry for her, but she doesn’t listen to anyone. Was she wrong to blame me or did I get it wrong?

– Cupid problem

Dear Cupid: Now I’ve heard it all! How exactly does your sister think you are responsible for five decades of her decisions? No. The case is written off! I really hope your sister can find relief or a solution to her misery. But regarding you, she seems to choose blame over action. It doesn’t solve anything.